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Sure, acting unavailable might work at the casual dating stage, but what happens after that? Learn an instrument, a language, or take dancing lessons. 2) Set Boundaries Why would someone commit to you if they’re getting everything they want without the commitment?

If you’re struggling with this, here’s a short list to help you go from a casual date to a serious mate (so lame, I know).

1) Be Independent Some “experts” say you should act unavailable.

If it’s “to get to know someone”, you’ll probably seem interview-ish. People like being around fun, low-pressure people with no expectations.

The best way to look at a date is a chance to have fun. As things progress, that’s when you get to know each other.

Dating Tips and Q&A with Yours Truly I wrote the first version of this article in 2012, and since then I’ve gotten hundreds of emails and comments asking about what to do in certain situations.