So if your parents don't approve, keep that in mind if you were planning on hiding it from them during the day!
- It should not be done to look weird or stand out; rather it should be done in accordance with the custom of women in her country. - It should not contain any image of animate beings.
Ibn Qudaamah (may Allah have mercy on him) said: It is permissible for women to adorn themselves with gold, silver and jewels according to their custom, such as bracelets, anklets, earrings and rings, and what they wear on their faces, necks, arms, ears and elsewhere. Shaykh Muhammad ibn Ibraaheem (may Allah have mercy on him) said: Islam, in its wisdom, permits women to adorn themselves in customary manners. Fataawa Muhammad ibn Ibraaheem, 4/73 Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) was asked about the ruling on piercing a girl’s ears for the purpose of adornment.
The needle should not go through cartilage, as this can be extremely painful.
When I Got It: Experience: This was a pretty easy piercing - it takes around six months to heal, but only took about 2 for me to be able to switch out the jewelry.
Many pieces of jewelry can be used to hide the piercing and flip it up, if necessary, making it convenient for those with jobs with dress codes.