"Your family really scares me." Either the constant contact, or the gruff father, or the crazy sister...there's some aspect here that he will never name (you don't mess with a girl's family) but it scares the sh*t out of him.2.But that's his secret, and maybe it's okay that he keeps that particular treasured act to himself.
Every relationship is different and just because you haven’t hit a certain milestone by a certain time doesn’t mean you should panic or see it as a red flag.
But it is also good to know how things are progressing in your relationship because it helps you figure out what you want in a relationship.
"Playing with my friend's kid completely triggers my paternal instinct." He doesn't want to freak you out, and he's not necessarily ready for kids—but damn is that baby cute. "He's scared to say 'I love you' first, too." Unless you get him drunk.
Then he might just blurt out "I love you," on the third date. "I am completely in love with your [insert strange trait here]." There is one thing about you that every time he sees or hears it he softens a little bit inside.
(Below are more serious questions) After you meet a girl/guy and while you are establishing a friendship, you should get answers to these questions before you start dating. They reveal a lot about what that person expects, and what that person is looking for in terms of their dreams, their spouse, their leisure time, and their ideals. In an ideal relationship, what would you spend the majority of your time doing?