Plus, the majority of men we polled for the book said the "no sex on a first date" rule was a myth.
It just means they will match you with men who share your outlook on life and basic personality type.
Even with the matches I didn't end up with, I could tell that we had those "big things" in common.
Be aware that there are many customer service complaints, as well as complaints that many members are inactive despite their profiles appearing in the member database.
Lastly, one of the most common complaints from members is that e Harmony doesn't seem to match them up to dates that they have anything in common with.
Besides not revealing pictures and other personal data right away, the site also features a tool called "Secure Call", which is basically a call anonymizer that a member accesses through the website, which auto-dials your potential mate by clicking a button to initiate the call, once both parties agree.