I welcome the input of our readers in the comments section below! You always hear about foreign guys coming to hook up with innocent Chinese girls and then leaving them the next day.
The topic is a perennial favorite on Chinese forums and Weibo.
The dating scene in Chengdu is pretty depressing: young chinese guys (19-23ish) really love foreign girls, the older guys want to try us out (once a guy stared at me across a bar all night.
When he finally got up the courage to approach me his pick up line was "I want to f#*$ you" followed by "I REALLY want to f you" when I just stared at him).
as your friend" thing ~oh, and also, a LOT of 21y/o's think I'm the best thing ever but I prefer grown ups~ as for foreign guys, a lot just want to sleep around, "try out" tiny/short asian girls, or they simply go home after a few months).